So from the saga of yesterday, Here is the outcome. Said person started to text me yesterday because he of course could not fix his own issue. He of course wanted to continue to have contact with me for some fucked up reason.Well I sent him an email with the solution and due to not wanting to be dramatic I finally told him that from now on I cant help him with anything. I know him and per the company policy we are not supposed to help out friends and family. I have to admit that I felt bad about doing this. Honestly though, feeling bad has more to do with the caretaker/enabler in me. I did what was best and right for me. Why should I continue talking to the person who threatened my Job and my life?? By telling me that he can make my life Hell. Wether he may have meant it or not. One thing I do not do well with is threats to my personal space and especially not my job. It has recently occurred to me that I am way to nice to people, especially men when they say and do harmful things to me. This has been a good reminder of where I am coming from and where I am going. Progress is a process. I am learning to crawl and then to walk. I may falter at points in this process but I am going to get back up and Be who I am aiming to be.....It is time to evolve and change. Now off to walk the park and start my day. Til tommorrow.
peace to you all!!
I am feeling like a stalker. You are amazing. Very courageous to put yourself out there. Thanks for letting us watch you go on your journey to a better you. You are inspiring.
ReplyDeleteThanks Suzzy I appreciate the kind words : )
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